For those who homeschool on a more traditional schedule,
January is the middle of the school year. And no matter what the calendar says,
I’m convinced that February is the longest month of the year. Nevertheless, we
can take steps towards a fresh start even at this juncture. Now is a great time
to refocus on our objectives—while our minds are all ready focused on losing
the same ten pounds we lose every January, and we’re in the starting-over
mindset. Let’s take a look at three areas in which we can reestablish our
beginning-of-the-school-year goals: curricula, clutter, and character.
Let’s tackle curricula first. Yes, I mean the new math program
we were sure would turn our little darlings into Albert Einstein miniatures. Is
that new math program really working or would it be better to pull out the good
old standby that has a proven track record? While it may not be the easiest
time of year to try to sell used curricula, it is the right time of year to
start a to-sell bin. If it didn’t work this year, chances are that it won’t
work next year.
What about all those cool extras that we were sure we
would be able to squeeze into our already-overcrowded academic days? If it’s
still collecting dust on the top shelf, put it in that to-sell bin. Don’t think
of it as wasting money, think of it as seed money (after you sell it, anyway)
for next year’s curricula list.
Next we’re ready for my favorite category to organize:
clutter. Some people have every stray Christmas hand towel and ornament tucked
away in matching red Rubbermaid bins by New Year’s Day. Others of us are still
finding turkey fridge magnets and glittery bows as we get out the Valentine’s
Day decorations—not to mention must-have toys that turned out to be not all
that.
The perfect time to declutter our seasonal decorations is
when we’re boxing up our them up. Trash the broken ornaments, the ugly
centerpieces, and the faded wreaths. This time of year is the most
cost-effective time to invest in new storage, if need be. Mass retailers currently
have season-specific storage solutions on, which is the only reason that my
Christmas decorations are all stored in red and/or green plastic containers. As
a side note, color coding makes it easier to figure out which bins need to come
down from the attic for each season. When you’re shopping for storage, though,
don’t give in to the urge to purchase all new decorations just because they’re
on sale. That defeats the purpose of decluttering!
“Out with the old, in with the new,” goes the old saying.
If your kids’ grandparents are anything like mine (my in-laws at least), then
you know that Christmases and birthdays bring in a plethora of new toys, games,
and DVDs. While some of the new items lose their appeal the day after the
wrapping paper has been ripped off, some of them really do earn a spot in the
limelight. Now, while our kids’ attention is on their new stuff, is the time to
weed through their old toys and games. Start a yard sale bin for things in good
condition, a give-away box for items that can go to the less fortunate, and a
BIG trash bag for toys that are broken, games with missing pieces, and videos
that got eaten by the VCR.
While we’re in the decluttering mode, let’s go through
our papers, too. First the obvious: trash old invitations, expired coupons, and
finished magazines. Next the less obvious: academic papers that multiply like
dust bunnies. Remember those portfolios that we were going to set up in
September for samples of our children’s school work? Now’s the time to start
them for real. Can’t remember the details? Review my column in the July/August
2011 Home School Enrichment magazine.
The basics are to just keep a few of each subject, to sort them by child and by
topic, and to file them in a binder every few weeks.
Last, but certainly not least, let’s talk about making a
fresh start with our character development. Like Paul in Philippians 3, I do
not count myself as having arrived. I start each new school year with good
intentions of being more patient, more flexible, and more godly as a homeschool
mom. About this time every year, though, I find myself exhausted and ready for
June. The problem is that June is still six months away. Instead of letting
this area slide—again—let’s regroup and start over. It’s the perfect time of
year to take a deep breath, say yes to an unscheduled field trip, and to start
each school day with devotions—again. Let’s say with Paul, “I press on, that I
may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me”
(Philippians 3:12, NKJV). We need to practice what we preach to our kids in
this department. I don’t know about you, but I’m guilty of holding my kids to a
higher standard than I want to impose on myself. We just need to remember that
good character traits are caught more than they are taught.
Hello! I just found your blog through another homeschool mom. I love your book reviews! I would love to send you a copy of each of my books to review and give away! Where can I send them?
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Linda
www.LindaCrosby.com
Bethany, I'm doing some curriculum changing for the OLD stuff I thought would work this year and hasn't. Thanks for the encouraging words. I love this journey of homeschooling, and the opportunity to change and revamp my efforts and strategies. Blessings!
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