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December is
my favorite month of the year because it includes my two favorite holidays:
Jesus’ birthday and my birthday. I love the presents (giving as well as
receiving), the wrapping, the sights, the sounds, the smells, the anticipation,
the caroling, the baking, the planning, the partying—all of it. At least, December
was my favorite month until I was diagnosed with two chronic illnesses that
have left me overwhelmed and gasping for air with a regular schedule before
even adding holiday duties. I hate that my favorite season has become a series
of duties.
So, what’s a
mom to do? Cancel Christmas? Not likely! Go full bore and pay a heavy health
price in January? Not a good idea. How ’bout a balance that falls somewhere in
the middle? The following measures can help us experience a more peaceful
nativity.
Ten Steps to
a dread-proof December, even with a chronic illness:
Think about
what really matters. What’s at the top of your list that you just can’t give up
during the holidays?
Make a list
of the top five items on your what-really-matters list and brainstorm ways to
make those happen this year.
Let go of
the rest. Yes, I know that’s the hardest part!
Delegate
everything possible. The cookies will be just as good if your 13-year-old makes
them.
Simplify the
decorations, the baking, the gifts, and most of all your expectations.
Be happy
with what gets done and try not to focus on what’s left undone.
Pace
yourself. Don’t try to complete your entire list in one afternoon just because
you start off feeling great.
Take naps.
Rest often.
Remember the
real reason for the season: Jesus. Nothing else really matters.
Now, all I
have to do is follow my own advice, and I can return to enjoying my favorite
season instead of dreading December!
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